Along the way, helpers have shown up to share information and guidance that has helped make sense of some of what may be going on. It’s not about trying to find out what the other is doing, feeling or thinking, only they can tell you that. But, it’s a good way to gauge how well you’re doing and how far you’ve come. If the person standing in front of you and sharing their take on things triggers your irritation, anger or doubt, it’s a sure sign that there’s more work to be done…and there always is!
Listening to Tarot card readers is something the TF collective seems to do a lot of; mostly, it seems, to find out what’s going on with the other person. It’s interesting to read some of the comments that people share about their DF or DM. There’s another post about that somewhere on this site, so I won’t go into that here.
I too have fallen prey to the allure of the Tarot and even bought my own deck to see if I could learn how to use the cards to help me make sense of the situation. I discovered that they do help clarify what’s going on and I find delight in using them for a check in every now and then.
The Tarot helpers on YouTube are incredibly skilful and some are better than others. So, if you’re going to listen to them, choose wisely and select ones that speak more about the healing journey and what your role is on this path. Remember, it isn’t a race, it isn’t about the other person and it isn’t about dating!
The readers that I resonated with at the beginning have changed and I have developed a sense of who really speaks to me about my own healing journey. As I’ve opened up more and developed a greater sense of who I am and why I’m here, I have discovered others who I resonate with on a deeper level. These are the ones I find speak more to the truth of the energy, the inner journey, the power of the connection and of course, the Divine!
Remembering that this journey is more about who I am becoming, connecting with my truth, understanding the spiritual aspects of what is happening and surrendering to how it turns out or how things show up is a game, sometimes fun even. But, if you don’t know the rules or how to play it, the game can be confusing. That’s why reading books and learning from others, who have practiced and lived their lives based on these spiritual laws, is essential. Finding a teacher that you connect with and can study with is a real Godsend!